My girlfriend has been acting differently recently. She seems to be getting super annoyed at just about everything which is pretty unlike her. At first I didn’t mind and I figured she was just having a bad day or whatever, but it seems like it’s all the time now and it’s getting to the point where it’s starting to affect me because I’m around it. It’s kind of frustrating to me because I don’t want that kind of negative energy around me. When you’re with someone who’s always in a bad mood it’s draining and it ruins your own mood. It’s even to the point where it’s impacting how we interact, like she doesn’t really seem interested in doing anything together anymore and I’m wondering why we’re even dating. Maybe she wants me to break up with her. I don’t know. But if things continue like this I going to start thinking about it.
It’s almost to the point where I prefer to do some things by myself since she doesn’t seem to enjoy doing things together anymore. You’re probably thinking “why don’t you just talk to her about it?” My girlfriend isn’t the best at communicating but I don’t think it’s something I’m doing or not doing, I think she’s just kind of losing interest in the relationship, and I think when that happen sometimes people don’t even realize that it’s happening so they’re not able to give a reason for why they feel the way they feel. I’ve been in that situation before. I was really into this one girl I was dating but then we eventually started to kind of drift apart and I lost interest. She was still a cool person, I just wasn’t interested in her in that way anymore.
I think that’s what’s happening here. It’s kind of giving me a stress headache, too. We need to figure out what is going on soon because I’m not happy the way things are going and I don’t want to stay in the relationship if it’s going to be like this. Of course I’m willing to help her or work with her if she’s having issues that are related to me or to us, but if she’s just not that into me anymore then I don’t think we should stay together. I don’t want to keep dating someone who isn’t interested in being with me. And I don’t think she really wants to be in a situation where she’s not happy, either.